tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6521993746854557819.post5451735646100310511..comments2024-03-16T07:11:01.865-04:00Comments on Chronicles:A Quarter Life Crisis: Week in Review: Like Old Times with Model Friend, I Hate the Red Eye and Sidityness Reigns Supreme…Chaotically Calmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02076191018013608974noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6521993746854557819.post-42505383092760305152009-09-09T12:41:06.815-04:002009-09-09T12:41:06.815-04:00@True, well I guess I better wear it proud...but I...@True, well I guess I better wear it proud...but I would like to say my reason for not taking Mailroom boy seriously has more to do with his attitude than his chosen profession. It might seem that way given his pseudo name but I honestlty could care less if he was a garbage man if he had some type of drive.<br /><br />@Reforming, don't worry I plan to keep the options way open...I am not the settling type.<br /><br />@Mrs O, you're 100% right if I were in high school it wouldn't even be that big of an issue (besides the kiddie) but I just can't see me taking him seriously. <br /><br />@Diva, at 33 with no life direction = not cute. We can chill and go to fun don't matter events but I can't take it anywhere else with him. I think I just needed to see it all in print.<br /><br />@La'Tonya I never read Steve Harvey's book but he has a very valid point. Don't get me wrong Mailroom Boy has some endearing qualities they just don't tip the scale where I am going to take him a serious relationship prospect. He is around for fun :-D<br /><br />@CG, I heard somewhere that there's nothing worse than wasted talent. When I see someone working beneath his potential it makes me frustrated. There's so much opportunity if we seek it out. <br /><br />@Mr Nichols, you're right no one's perfect but I do hold fast to the idea that there is person out there that hits the short list. Sam Keen said that true love isn't about loving a perfect person but loving an imperfect person perfectly. In any event he's a cool guy and there's nothing wrong with friends, right?Chaotically Calmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02076191018013608974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6521993746854557819.post-72774951392931141072009-09-08T19:53:11.595-04:002009-09-08T19:53:11.595-04:00So I read this Sunday night I think it was at like...So I read this Sunday night I think it was at like 2 in the morning or something. You gave me a lot to think about so I didn't want to respond just yet. But the more I read, the more it seems to me like you'd be settling if you took your relationship to the next level with MRB. I know nobody's perfect, but it just doesn't seem like he has that extra something that you need. Now, I do agree with some of the other comments that he seems like a decent dude to kick it with and whatnot, but it gets tricky if he feels a certain way because then he might misinterpret things you do and think you're leading him on.mr. nicholshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17636893403179885321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6521993746854557819.post-21266493875758525222009-09-03T08:33:02.768-04:002009-09-03T08:33:02.768-04:00Oh boy. I have to say hearing more about MRB is no...Oh boy. I have to say hearing more about MRB is not helping his case. <br /><br />What would bother me most is the same -- working under his potential and a lack of solid credit. If he was declined for $14 bucks he's not paying close attention to his account.<br /><br />Oy. Maybe you'll end up being best friends instead.cardiogirl @ cardiogirl.nethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01322965001273835193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6521993746854557819.post-36521272327686267122009-09-01T06:19:23.352-04:002009-09-01T06:19:23.352-04:00Glad you and Model Friend had a good time. Girl, y...Glad you and Model Friend had a good time. Girl, you fly just as much as the fly jock! <br /><br />I so understand wanting what you want! Settling is not meeting your goal or idea. Yeah sometimes we have to adjust, but I so feel you on wanting the first with a man. And it that makes you sidity, wear it well. There is nothing wrong with working in the mailroom, and as much as I like Mailroom Boy, a man, or anyone for that matter, should have goals! At least to one day run the mailroom! I'm with Baby Bro.<br /><br />I'm with Steve Harvey, a man does three things to show his love, Provide, Protect, and Profess. It doesn't look like Mailromm Boy can provide. <br /><br />And that's all I've got to say about THAT!La'Tonya Richardsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01656137437727894852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6521993746854557819.post-6935070941071619152009-08-31T23:19:05.188-04:002009-08-31T23:19:05.188-04:00You've already made up your mind...everything ...You've already made up your mind...everything you said, rather typed is in the proof. <br /><br />Being that you work in the same office, you might want to cut it soon though...you know I'm all game for "fun" but if he gets emo, you gotta see him everyday at work<br /><br />Side note: It baffles me why someone who is 33, not married, lives with Auntie. I mean I get it, he has a kid, but the little half-pint can't be taking his whole check...and if she is, maybe he needs to man up and get a part-time job, or side gig. Cause I'm sure he was embarrassed his $14.00 got rejectedDC DIVA DATING ADVENTUREShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00096885006866653953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6521993746854557819.post-56684771252191771622009-08-31T14:54:57.408-04:002009-08-31T14:54:57.408-04:00I think the negative things you listed about Mailr...I think the negative things you listed about Mailroom Boy are way more important to a long term situation than the things you like about him. If those things bother you now, they are going to drive you absolutely crazy if things get more serious! But, I agree with True2me, no reason why you can't keep him around for entertainment purposes for the time being.Ms. Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02503592607089663027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6521993746854557819.post-77532435613822340222009-08-28T21:08:47.696-04:002009-08-28T21:08:47.696-04:00Yeah, it's starting to sound like MailRoom Guy...Yeah, it's starting to sound like MailRoom Guy is just someone to hang with. Keep your options open!ReformingGeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17990465686765948682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6521993746854557819.post-50420096072191249572009-08-28T16:52:30.436-04:002009-08-28T16:52:30.436-04:00I think you should date and be serious w whom you ...I think you should date and be serious w whom you are comfortable doing so with<br /><br />You are "siddity" cause you dont want to date a mailroom MAN with a child already<br /><br />You dont want children and you prefer if your mate at least have some drive (and to me he sounds lazy, liking his job because he can get away w doing NOTHING)<br /><br />there is nothing wrong w your standards..do you ..<br /><br />but I dont see why u cant have fun w him for a while lolAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04594023915715415479noreply@blogger.com